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Today was a big day at work. A very big day.
Throughout my entire career (all 6 years of it), I’ve never been super happy with my work. Never really felt satisfied. Sure, here and there I had some good moments, but at my new job, I feel good most of the time. Such a great improvement. It probably has something to do with the fact that I’m working in-house now, rather than for an agency. After my first job, I always thought that would be the route I wanted to take, but I got stuck in another agency because it was a good opportunity (or so I thought) at the time.
Anyway, I’m working on one specific project now. Back in November, we started pitching some major national consumer magazines. Southern Living, Woman’s Day, Better Homes & Gardens, etc. If you’re not familiar, magazines, especially large magazines like these, work on very long lead times. Anywhere from 6 months to a year. So all this work we were doing was in the hopes that they would be interested in the story for an April or May issue, because it’s the best timing for the project.
We’ve been calling and emailing and been getting no where. The story is a perfect item for the “news brief” sections that a lot of these magazines have. (This is hard to explain without telling you about the project. Although I’m not very anonymous on here, I don’t want to reveal my employer)
We’re not asking for a lot. I want them to list one thing fr0m our project and I’d be happy with them just crediting us in the caption – though if they wanted to include a blurb about our work, that would be ideal.
This week we started a final push. I made several calls today, and everyone thinks the project is interesting, but they only want to feature the ultimate outcome of our project, which is about 5 years out, and don’t feel like they can fit the current activities anywhere.
My colleagues has had the same luck, and our boss is so surprised (as we all are) that no one has bitten.
I picked up the phone and called another editor, expecting to get turned down or another voicemail. When she picked up, I introduced myself and where I was from and gave my brief intro on the project – like I always do. And then she said “I’m sorry, can I stop you?” – like so many do. Damnit.
“I believe we’re planning on including this in the May issue. Check with XX, who coordinates that section.”
I’m sorry, WHAT?!
She gave me the other editors contact info and I thanked her. I made the next call to another nice woman who confirmed that, yes, our project would be included in the May issue (barring any editorial cuts).
HELL F-ING YEAH!!!!!!!!!
Not only that, they are including the item we want them to include, a photo AND a blurb about the project. This could not have been more perfect!
The magazine? Family Circle. Circulation? 3.8 million. YES!
I got off the phone and immediately went to tell my boss, who let out a loud “WAHOO!” while waving her arms in the air.
Though it will look small in print, this is by far one of the biggest hits I’ve had.
Sure, I’ve had items in the NY Post, NY Daily News and some major trade publications. But from a circulation standpoint – this is my biggest. And the fact that my boss was actually excited, that’s just the icing on the cake. Not that she wouldn’t be, but I’ve worked for people who would have just brushed it off – even though we haven’t had any luck up until now.
She’s so excited, in fact, that after I left her office, she sent an email to our team saying we need to go out to lunch next week to celebrate! So fun.
This was a huge achievement and it makes me feel good.
Oh, and you better believe that I’m going to buy like 6 gazillion copies of the magazine when it comes out – and it will have a spot right up front in my portfolio.
Quite some time ago, probably around the summer of 2008, I was reading Weddingbee as a pre-engaged gal and found a post by one of the bees (perhaps it was Miss Pineapple – I can’t really remember) who had gotten a painting of her parent’s dog done as a wedding gift for them. Where did she find the artist? On Etsy. This was my first introduction to the website. I loved the painting and contacted the artist and had one done of our puppies for L for Christmas that year.
I soon realized that Etsy was an amazing place and have since ordered many things from different sellers. Earrings for Christmas gifts, custom-made jewelry for my bridesmaids to wear, my “something blue” for our wedding, amazing etched beer glasses for groomsmen and Christmas gifts and so much more.
As I continued to read Weddingbee, still as a pre-engaged gal, I realized that a lot of the Bees made their own paper goods for their weddings. Hmm, I could do that! It would allow me to get things exactly how we wanted and perhaps save some money since I knew that when the time did come for us to get married, we would be working with a smaller budget. So I decided to start buying some tools (embossing heat gun, bone folder, paper cutter, etc.) so when wedding planning time came, they wouldn’t have to be taken out of our budget.
But I couldn’t be the crazy girl who bought stuff for her wedding before she was even engaged. (Clearly, obsessing over Weddingbee and other wedding blogs for more than a year before I was engaged did not make me that crazy girl) So I decided to set up my own Etsy shop and sell some items there so that the tools were actually for that and when wedding planning time came along, I coincidentally already had a lot of what I needed. I’m sneaky, huh?
And so, Over A Paper Moon was born.
I started off with some embossed notecards – and even made two sales. Considering I didn’t do much to market my Etsy shop (aside from posting that link on the left side of my blog, which few people read), I didn’t think that was horrible. Then I got laid off and couldn’t really spend the money to buy more supplies. And then we got engaged. And well, all bets were off then. I did wedding planning pretty much 24/7.
But now, the planning is done. The wedding is over. We’re back from our honeymoon. And the holiday craziness is passed us. But I miss all the crafting I did for our wedding! I made EVERYTHING. Pocketfold invitations from scratch, our save the dates, a Swarovski crystal cake topper, programs that opened into fans, everything. I think it’s high time I get back to the Etsy world and maybe give this shop another go.
On Saturday, I spent a few hours making some Valentine’s Day cards and listed them in my shop. Take a look! And tell your friends. And have them tell their friends!
More will be coming soon. Since everyone that saw my work at the wedding told me I need to do this as a career. I plan on adding some invitations, cake toppers and other elements that got a lot of feedback from our wedding.
Let me know what you think – and if you are looking for anything specific – I’m always open to custom orders!
I have the weirdest dreams ever. No really, I do. L’s standard response after I detail to him my strange, twisted, and ridiculous dreams is “you need professional help.” The stories often start similarly:
So we were at our house, but it wasn’t really our house. or I was in college, but it wasn’t [the college I went to] etc., etc., etc.
Now, I know I’m not the only one who has dreams like that. But mine are always so long and involved. And a lot of times, scary. I often wake up and my heart is racing or I’m sweating and clutching the blankets. It takes me quite a while to kind of calm down and realize that whatever it was that I was just dreaming, is not real. If L is home, I usually try to wake him up and get as close as possible. Unfortunately, for someone who is used to getting woken up in the middle of the night, when he’s home, he’s not so easy to wake up.
In highschool, the teacher that taught my junior year psychology class told us that dreams are how your brain “dumps” information it doesn’t need anymore. So all those random factoids you pick up or things you see on TV, they get purged through some sort of dream. Definitely seems to make sense in my life. As these crazy dreams are something I’ve had my whole life, my mom often says that my mind is full of random crap that just spins round and round and round and every now and then, it spits something out and that’s what I dream about. I think she’s right.
It gets tiring though. I go through phases where I will have a (or many) whacked out dreams every night for weeks. And then for weeks I won’t have any (well, I’m sure that I do, I just don’t remember them). I specifically remember a time when I was at my last job and I kept having these stupid dreams and would wake up in the middle of the night and not want to go back to sleep. I was so tired, but I felt like my brain was too “busy” when I slept.
The other night, I had a kind of dream that I only recall having one other time. I woke up and I was mad at L. SO. MAD. I was mad because in my dream he did something that made me very mad. And when I woke up, it took me awhile to not be mad at him. I kept telling myself that it wasn’t true and never happened, but I was still mad. Have you ever had a dream like that?
The first time was probably a couple years ago when I dreamed he had cancelled plans with me bc his best friend’s girlfriend (who is now his best friend’s fiance’) was coming into town and he wanted to go out with her instead. (that’s the short version. Trust me, when I told the entire dream to L, it probably took me a good 10 minutes – no joke).
This time I had a dream that L and I were laying in bed, each smoking a joint. It supposedly was the first time for us and I asked him how long it was going to take before I felt high. He said he didn’t know. Then through a conversation about the pot, he admitted that this was not the first time that he had done it and that he had done it several times – and many were when we were “together”. I got so angry at him. So, so angry. 1. He had lied to me bc he always told me that he had never done that before, 2. because he had done it when we were “together” and didn’t tell me and bc he felt he needed to to make it better and 3. Why the hell would he risk his job by doing that? He can be drug tested randomly any day. Is he stupid?!?! I got out of bed (in my dream) and laid on the floor to go to sleep. He started poking me telling me it wasn’t a big deal and I should just get over it. I went on and on about how I couldn’t trust him bc he was a liar and what was I supposed to do because we were already married, etc., etc., etc.
I woke up and was slid halfway down the bed, not using any pillows (typical). I looked to my right and L was laying there, sleeping. Heat grew in my face bc I was so mad at him for lying to me. I looked to my left and there is Shep, laying next to me like another person (those dogs are so spoiled). I tried to get over my anger and crawled up closer to L telling him that I just had a dream that he was smoking pot and I was mad at him. He mumbled something I couldn’t make out, said he loved me and rolled over.
I fell back asleep for a couple hours before my alarm went off and when I got up, I was still a little mad. It wore off before I left the house. I guess because it finally sunk in that it was a dream and it wasn’t real. I told him about the dream later that day and he said he remembered me saying something about pot and then promised me that he has never done it and never will – he’d really like to keep that job of his.
What’s even weirder about all of this? As I’m telling him about the dream again, he says, “Oh yeah, did I tell you I got popped for a test at the vollies yesterday?” The volunteer FD in our town that we’re both members of randomly selects a group of people each quarter to be drug tested and L’s name popped up this time – but he never mentioned it. Maybe I’m a prophet! haha.
Am I the only one that experiences the wake-up angry dreams? Or are there others out there (God, I hope so!).

But hey, maybe when I’m contacted by the lawer of a very rich, dead man that I didn’t know was my uncle to tell me I’ve inherited a large sum of money, this will be hanging in my guest bathroom. One can only hope.






